I knew what he liked and he knew how far I would go.

It was nice to expand my fantasies too, after all, role playing is the safest sex out there, and I could do things I would never even think of doing in real life, or so I thought.

I would either jerk off while we were role playing or I would jerk off shortly after we signed off.

My wife and I are empty nesters and our sex life hasn't been that great for a while now.

In those few minutes that I was waiting, I was both excited and scared. Just as I was thinking we would never meet, a good looking man about my age or even a few years younger came up to me. We started making small talk about the weather and sports.

I felt like I was going on a blind date, maybe he came in and saw me then decided to leave. "Jay, I'm Paul." I checked him out as I stood up and shook his hand. I was expecting Paul to be nothing like he described himself. You could tell we were both nervous afterall, it was a bizarre situation.

That would be fun." He even said, "we don't have to do anything but it would be fun to meet over a couple of beers and put faces to the chats we've had." That put me at ease, as these were roles and fantasies that I never expected to live out.

After all, it was over 25 years since I had a bi experience.

I sent him a text to tell him I was sitting at the bar and what I was wearing.