– Tara*Relationship People I’m in my first real relationship ever!It's really nice to have someone always there and interested in my day and who wants to spend time with me.It satisfied both of our needs without the pressure of a relationship.But soon, he got abusive, saying he wanted nothing to do with me sober and then asking to have drunken sex. I think that friends-with-benefits can work, but you have to treat each other like friends.Last week we spoke to three sociologists who debunked some of the myths surrounding college dating — namely that hook-up culture is more of a subculture, and yes, dating still exists. We interviewed 30 campus co-eds to find out, and asked them whether or not they prefer hooking up to dating or vice versa.
I definitely prefer it to hooking up because it brings more of a human element back to sex. – Kara*I prefer dating to hook-ups, myself having been in two serious relationships during college, one of which is still going post-graduation. You see all types of relationships, and it just depends on what works for the individual.
I wasn’t that into it and I didn’t want to be in a relationship.