If you understand drinking and a good relationship usually do not mix, either stop hanging around those who drink or make sure they do not compromise your conviction.
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If you want to complement each other, do not hang around those who do not appreciate their mate. Studies of couple who continued to speak positive and uplifting words to one another had meaningful marriages. One of the marvelous things about relationships is that we are all different.